MAKE YOUR LIFE COUNT

CHOOSE WHAT YOU THINK IS MOST IMPORTANT

As it is said that “man do not search for meaning to life but they give a meaning to it”. How? By looking around themselves, discovering what they have inside that will definitely give a unique meaning to their life. You wonder while others are making it but you seem not, no matter how hard you try but the  truth is that, never ever give-up just change your mind-set.  This is because they have a secret which I called the success formula that is their way of thinking. If you can change your mindset and move yourself with positive thinking then you are already created your success formula. If you have not  discovered something you could die for you are not fit to live, dream big, keep aiming at the star if you miss it you will eventually landed in the moon.

FIND THE REALITY IN YOU

Therefore, begin to discover the hidden  talent in you. The past can’t be changed; the future is not concerned with our will, and can be changed. Prepared to change the future because if you don’t mind yourself the world will not mind you, no matter how a census is conducted in a country the mad-one is not counted simply because there are out of their mind and they could not used it, but you can use yours, so while waiting when you can still move your world with positive thought and thinking. See only possibility and give no room for impossibility.

GIVE NO EXCUSE

The only way to avoid the excuse of postponing your business to do for tomorrow is by putting it today, try it, do it, now not later, because postponing what you could do today for tomorrow is just like taking step away from destiny. It is said that seeing is believing but what you believed also gives what you see. In life people believe in lie and impossibility simply because they want it to be true or they are afraid it might true. If you believe you will make it you will. Therefore, your believed have an important role to play in your life. A word like this will help you avoid those negative thought of yesterday. I will make it, it is possible, I will buy that car and build that house, yes! It’s possible.

YOU ARE THE ARCHITECT

Put your word into action it produces a powerful result as you power your life with a positive thinking. Your past can’t control you but you control them because you can do something today that will change your tomorrow. One thing is certain in life the power of belief, the power of thought, will move reality in the direction of what will believe and conceive of it. If you really believe you can do something, you can. That is a fact. See you at the top!

WRITE and get paid

YOU CAN MAKE MONEY ON-LINE writing articles

You can start making excellent money writing articles, share question, answer, comment on articles and get paid is that smart? Of course yes!  But what normally comes into one’s mind is a certain question like this; I don’t know much about the things of the internet, how will I make these happen? Well, you have nothing to worry about as far you can read through the page on the net comment on articles, ask question or provide answer to some worried question people might need your help, and then you are on your way to make a smart money. You don’t need to know every thing of the internet before you begin, just start some where, if a 12 years old boy can do this, why you?

How will I post articles that someone can read, so that I can be paid for it? The solution lies on you, if you can lay your hand and write from the bottom of your mind, what you feel or know, then go and sign-up with Xomba to get started is simple and easy. Who will pay me for reading or publishing my articles? Well, Xomba will not pay you, but Google does, xomba help to promote your earning using the search engine whenever your content page advertised, xomba generate income for you by placing your articles for advert through the use of adwords.

Go and sign-up for Google Adsense account if you don’t have one because this is where you will get your pay and one’s you can make your way through xomba you will find it very interesting.

However, some people goes to internet just to check and send email without realizing what they could do to make money using what they have, if you are in this categories of people, you better change your mindset and start thinking of online article writing is cool, you can do it anytime as you wish, make it a hobbies. Give the people what they want and you get paid for it. I thank God for xomba, there are other sites out there but xomba gives me the opportunity to write, share, comments, make friends and get paid. I think that’s a relief, it’s something worth the ticket fare, just give it a try.

REDEEM YOUR DAY

KEEP PLANNING YOUR DAY

Life is full of lesson to learn, experience and things to pursue occupy and become as one established and move forward to handle it. Challenge in life as we all know is very crucial thing, it doesn’t only mean struggle but it means who you are, what you make yourself today in spite of all obstacle and barriers, you are still pressing on to give your life a meaning.

Whatever you do in life, do it with the best of your ability, show the best in you, bring out thee hidden goodness, and be a blessing to others. Always impress yourself first before anyone.

You are special, no one despise you, stop looking down on you and focus on the good things of life that bring joy to you and your family, nation and community.

Keep planning and redeeming your day you will eventually laded in discovering the spirit that controls your future that shows you whom you are – not where you are.

Face those things that makes you unhappy, fix them in order (I mean seek a solution to them) then free your self – Give yourself the joy you want by solving your problem first.

Impossibility is not your aspect but possibility is your assets, in all try to avoid negative attitude and power your life with positive thinking and that gives you a positive change.

The delay of success doesn’t mean you are not blessed in life, be a job in scripture, exercise patient, keep planning and focus a change shall come some days. Think, plan then act while you still leave for if an able man die he will never leave again. Now that you are still alive, create joy for yourself, use your mind and brain, you will surely get there someday.

LET NEW THINGS FLOW IN YOUR LIFE

What in life do you worried so much? Is it money, marriage, relationship, happiness etc. your desire is your appetite for the success you want, never let the passion in you die-out for lack of focus. Relax and worry less for things are putting itself together for your good, get behind those things that cannot make you. Starts living a new life change every unwanted circumstance and let new things flow in the real life you desire, open that door wide for it. In life, what makes it more interesting, is keeping yourself open, letting new people in, using your mind, not being afraid of the unexpected.

Don’t allow your emotion to weigh you down. Emotion are human weakness, you need to focus, don’t leave the situation of things to fate because fate never wish you that; you deserve a better and happy life. Be patience, no matter what triggered your feeling to make you worried look for something you want and bring it to yourself. Isaac Newton stated in his law of motion; “A body or an object will continue to remain at a state of inertia if no external force applied to effect a change” You need an external force not an inertial to bring out the goodness, talent and success in you.

Be adaptive; when the going got tough always resort to a new system, then you will become unbeatable in your sale, business career, finance etc. Create love in yourself and pick your priority in life. Love brings happiness, it endures, and it persists longer than anger. Anger is a natural human emotion; impatience is such a pathetic human trait. But no matter what side of nature or nurture happens to be winning-out don’t give up always move up and put on a smile in every moments.

Learn to create what you want; give to people what you think you lack share their burden, help them get a job, put them first, in doing this you are preparing yourself to the top. Begins to activate yourself, and make yourself useful, you can do it don’t wait to learn it all. “It was said that, what you don’t know how can kill you, but the opposite is that it can make you too.” Take it from now you can’t wait any longer just start somewhere, because the future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. If you are curious to learn then you will be serious to win.

Begins your journey with what is available; don’t settle here, not yet! Keep moving until you get there!

TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOUR LOVED ONES

Always remember this; never forget to listen to your love one success. This is one thing that you should always do. Cultivate the attitude to take total care of your family, sibling and yourself. Take care of them while they leave and do not wait to weep when they die. Spent time with your love (family), make them happy and give them the best you can – if you are separated by distance, visit home regularly as much as possible, send them a letter and wishes, no matter how busy you are take some split of seconds to call them just to say hello.

Take care of your family with the little you have - a word of courage is enough to heal the heart and adapt one to face the challenge of life. Take time to communicate your feeling and worries with your family; don’t ignore them just because they were poor or unable to train you up to all academic level, they might render the best advise you want, share your problem with your family it worth the effort, keeping it for your self does no one any good.

Many people want to have all life can give them, before they could think of their family. Life is like a vapor of smoke that appears for a little while and then vanish, while still have the breath in you, now is the time to make them happy not later because that will only rub you the chance of family happiness. Procrastination of time to spend with your family will only create a debt for you, you weep heavily when they die leaving only a memory of things which you cannot change.

Don’t ever wait till you have all access to life function before thinking of your family, their blessing and happiness worth more than any other thing in the world. Many people don’t want to talk about theirs because of hard situation at home, they missed out and not knowing a change can come through them. As you may know; there’s no substitute for hard work and never expect anything to happen without you making a move first.

Newton will say reaction and action is equals and opposite, refuse your self of static and stand up for the total care of your family, go out there and do something, demand your success by force. There is no genetic code in you when you were born that you must not make it, refuse yourself of motionlessness. Think, plan, and act! Your action will be equals to your reaction and it produces result.

The Greatest Is Love – love your family; do well to everyone and reap the reward not the regret. Make them happy with what you have; you might not know what life will give tomorrow. Don’t wait to cry for nothing when you lost them, treat them now when they have you and experience the atmosphere of change in your home, business and organization.

Tips for Singles and Married

1. Always remember; never make yourself too available – people like mystery, puzzles and the thrill of the chase while dating.

2. Always remember this never forget to listen to your loved ones problems and success. This is the one thing that you should always do.

3. Always be considerate of your lover, when at a social or any other kind of event. Plan to spend some time together during the event.

4. All you married women – keep yourself looking good. When he sees other men looking at you he will be more intent on keeping you for himself.

5. All you daters remember this: Don’t be rude or get drunk on a date. Courtesy and manners will take you a long way.

6. A guy’s feelings may be buried in confusion what a man doesn’t realized is that this is what separate men’s intuition from that of women’s.

7. A relationship just doesn’t happen. Couples who are together for years aren’t just lucky; they actively care and work on the relationship.

8. Dater’s don’t talk about your ex. And if you do, don’t say anything disparaging. You are starting a new relationship so empty your luggage at the door.

9. Fill your sweetheart’s email box with e-postcards. Make a theme of the places you would like to go together, qualities about him or her you admire etc.

10. This is a tip mainly for men who are going for date: before going to meet your date check yourself first. Make sure your fingernails are clean.

11. A tip for the gals: let your man pay. If he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab.

12. Women pay attention: stay in shape and indulge in some fitness regime. However much you hate it, your Mr. Right loves your body as much as your mind.

13. Men don’t like weak women; they admire a strong woman but take care that you should not begin dominating. Maintain a relationship of equals.

14. If you find that your girl is rambling about various issues, don’t interrupt. It is her way of clarifying things in her own mind. Listen to her.

15. If you see a window of opportunity to come closer do not shut it. Any opportunity that helps you make a move should be acted upon immediately.

16. Communicate with your spouse. Let your spouse know what you are feeling and how you are feeling. Don’t be silent; it does no one any good.

17. Send her flowers, write her a love note, hug her unexpectedly or cook her favorite meal and eat by candle light. All of these say; I love you.

18. If you want to succeed in dating, go shopping, treat yourself to new clothes and even get a new look. Your image should be manageable and flattering.

19. When you go out to eat, order one serving first and don’t eat it fast, just take your time. The more time you have with your partner the better it is.

20. Appreciate your date: whether you have had lunch, taken a walk or spent an evening together, thank him for it and tell him how much you enjoyed.

21. Any good relationship requires effort to stay alive. Your unique way of being romantic is your personal anchor to securing the heart of another.

22. Ask your date questions and create conservation of mutual interests, even if you do not know much about the subject at hand.

23. Ask her about her school or career. School and work are always safe topics to discuss and can help you know what type of a person she is.

24. Boys if you make eye contact, do not be the one to look away, but do not stare for too long. Though be careful to not stare her down.

25. Befriending and understanding the girl you want to be with is very important. A lady needs to loved, adored and wants to feel needed.

26. Before going for a date, let someone else know where you are going and who you will be with. You might even consider arranging a time to call and check in.

27. Be sure to compliment your partner on something, anything. That quiet comment can be just the thing required, to lift up ones spirit.

28. Be polite! As they always say, politeness doesn’t cost anything. Every lover likes to be treated with respect and appreciation.

29. Be polite – please, thank you, you are welcome, these are not only meant for strangers; your own spouse and family should come first.

30. Be fair! Split the housework and spending money evenly. This way you are never resentful of your partner’s contributions (or lack of) or spending.

31. Be affectionate with your man. Give him a hug, hold hands and message his back. These nonverbal expressions of affection will mean a lot to your man.

32. Avoid letting your eyes wonder to other women when you are with her. Talking about other women or your ex are both no – no’s too.

33. Ask, don’t assume. If a man wants to know how you are feeling, he will usually ask. Females think they have a ‘6^th’ sense about guys. Just ask him.

34. Compliment him - whoever said that only women thrive on compliments had missed the mark by far. Men too draw nourishment from praise.

35. Communication is the key to keeping a healthy relationship going even something as simple as grocery shopping can be a chance to catch up.

36. Communication is the key ingredient in a relationship. It is important for couples to talk about both the big and small things in their lives.

37. Clutter around the house can create stress for both of you, so talk about how both of you can routinely keep the clutter to a minimum.

38. Choose a boyfriend carefully. You don’t want to look back and regret having started something that ended as a disaster.

39. Certain women like macho guys and disclosing too much of yourself early on in the date, can have negative effects. Speak less, hear more!

40. Call your partner to know if you can pick up anything on your way back home from work.

41. Buy super – long spaghetti noodles, set the table with red – checkered cloth and don’t forget the candle. Have a romantic video play while you eat.

42. Boys, you must stand up for your girlfriend no matter what. That means if you have to fight someone as long as it’s not a girl then do it.

43. Boys, you have to know about her most happiest or sad moments, close friends, family, co-workers, her favorite food and hobbies.

44. Boys try to match her energy level. Make sure your energy level is not too high or not too low relative to her.

45. Boys, the first step is to get noticed. If the girl you are after is truly as nice as you think, she’s probably being chased by several other guys.

46. Conversation is the key in this first date if you want to keep it comfortable and get another. So, be prepared with some interesting topics.

47. Confiding what is in your heart and in your mind can make a hug difference in promoting understanding closeness and intimacy in a relationship.

48. Boys, remember to look and feel positive energy draws people towards you. Project a positive attitude at all times.

49. Boys, if you can be honest, affectionate and respectful, just go ahead ask her out. You will stand out from the other boys if you can do that.

50. Boys, go out with your female friends. If a woman sees you hanging out with cool people, she will think you can’t be freaky.

51. Boys, be fun to hang around with, easy to laugh with and outgoing. Don’t be full of yourself or try to impress everyone, girl like humble guys.

52. Boys, like to have constant communication with the girl they like. So, calling him at his house will not look cheap, but is rather necessary.

53. A full moon is the perfect romantic thing to celebrate. Make a picnic for the two of you and camp out some where private to enjoy the ambiance.

54. A dating DON’T NEVER call someone more than once a day unless they reply. Desperation and instability are huge turn offs.

55. Guys, you might not like this, but bring cash on your first date. If the woman wants to go Dutch great but expect to pay at least the first time.

56. Girls, always remember: never come across as too available or too desperate, he will run a mile. He is the one doing the chasing remembers!

57. Deal sensibly: no matter how upset you are with your partner, take a leap of faith that the other person loves you and wants you to be happy.

58. Girls, the single most successful technique you can use to invites a man to approach you is, ask for his help with something.

59. Nurturing your relationship, enhancing it and keeping it flourishing takes time. There is no easy instant process!

60. Date safely rule – Go Dutch. By paying for your portion you won’t feel as if you are under any kind of obligation.

61. Create a small website or blog dedicated to your partner. Write a short love message each day for a month or forever.

62. Crack jokes (at your own risk please): Not only with this put your date at ease; it will show her that you have a sense of humor.

63. Couples turn off the TV, cell phone and sit together for a short time. Uninterrupted face – to – face, every day to share your thoughts and feelings.

64. Cooking a meal for your woman is one of the sweetest things a man can do. Pick a meal you know is simple for you to make and is pleasing to the eyes.

65. While dating, stay positive when your dates don’t end well. It is most certainly true that you will date a few frogs before you find your prince.

66. While complimenting a woman, don’t focus on her physical aspects. Admire some other qualities that make her an achiever in life.

67. When you agree to meet for a traditional or casual date, give a good impression. NEVER wear a sloppy out fit, let alone slippers to your date.

68. When you call your loved one on the phone, turn off all other distractions and focus on THAT PERSON. It really makes a huge difference.

69. Always be considerate of your lover, when at social or any other kind of event. Plan to spend some time together during the event.

70. When on a date always stand and sit up straight. It shows that you are strong, well trained and not ill. It makes you even look taller.

71. Never say anything out of anger. Relish your special moments, by letting your special someone know that he/she means everything to you.

72. When you sit down together in front of the TV, watch something romantic or pick up a romantic flick from your local video store.

73. Buy your loved ones favorites snacks and allow him/her to spend a whole evening in front of the TV – watching his/her favorite shows.

74. Call your special someone at random times, just to say how much they are loved and missed. Expressing love has no limitations.

75. Giving each others a little space is important. Space will definitely make the time you have together, so much more special.

76. It’s normal to feel hurt or angry sometimes, but in a healthy relationship, people don’t yell or call each other names. Talk things out.

77. When at a party, whisper something nice in your partner’s ear. Do this when she/he is in front of other people. Watch the reaction.

78. Have fun when dating, to create a happy atmosphere so your partner does not get bored. It is very important that she feels good.

79. Don’t expect your mate to be romantic towards you in return. Love is to give and receive.

80. Date the type of people you like and are attracted to, whatever your friends may say. Approval by your peers doesn’t prove a thing.

81. Girls like to be treated with respect. Ask for her opinion, listen to what she has to say and take her seriously. This will show her respect.

82. Before you go out, sit down, do relaxation exercise and visualize how you will like your date to go. Enjoy it. Doing so will prepare you for the date.

83. It may seem routine, but take your sweetie out for a walk together, hand in hand. Surely there are some scenic spots in your area to explore.

84. Don’t allow your love life to become a boring existence. Keep it alive by sending romantic love e-cards to your beloved every few days.

85. Don’t allow your date to get to know all about you the first time itself. Keeping secrets but give a hint. Create interest to get the attention.

86. Does she have an interest in sports? If so, maybe you have a sport in common and can have a date at a game or can play the sport you both like.

87. Do you vibe well? It is not necessary that both partners should have the same likes and dislikes, but they should be able to get along very well.

88. Do stay positive even when your dates don’t end well. It is most certainly true that you will date a few frogs before you find your prince.

89. Do not lie during a date. It creates problems. It’s always better to speak the truth and get the right partner who appreciates you for what you are.

90. Do not allow people to interfere with your relationship; don’t even let your family members get in the middle of fights or debates.

91. Do date only people you are attracted to, no matter what your friends say. Approval by your peers doesn’t prove a thing.

92. Desperation is the king of date killers. You need to keep the mindset that you are an important, busy person and that your date is lucky to know you.

93. Dating Tip – Never assume anything about your date until you choose to know him/her better. You cannot always tell by just looking.

94. Dating people don’t be obsessive. If the other person doesn’t call, they might have been busy. Leaving too many voice mails seems desperate.

95. Dating can be tiring, especially when managing multiple dates. If you feel like taking a night off, a weekend off, a week off go ahead and do it.

96. Dating at the workplace – keep all your disputes out the office. Whatever issue you are having, deal with it after work hours and outside the office.

97. Daters, what suits someone on screen may not suit you at at all. So don’t get into mindless copying but go for what flatters your body and personality.

98. Daters, keep away from negative friends who condone the dating scene or don’t understand it. They will lower your expectations and make you negative.

99. Daters, body language speaks volumes to the opposite gender, so don’t slouch, appear bored, fold your arms or engage in chewing nails or gum.

100. Girls like to be treated with respect. Ask for her opinion, listen to what she has to say and take her seriously. This will show her respect.

101. Before you go out, sit down, do a relaxation exercise and visualize how you will like your date to go. Enjoy it. Doing so will prepare you for the date.

102. It may seem routine, but take your sweetie out for a walk together, hand in hand. Surely there are scenic spots in your area to explore.

YOUR FINACIAL INTELLIGENCE

Learn how to make your money work for you, and don’t remain working for money, paying bills such as light bills, store rent, tax, house rent, and debts.

Each time you wake up in the money you must hurry up to work for the fear that your boss might fire you. You are making them rich while they are there smiling with their capital. This is what Robert called the rat race. More money to pay your expenses can not solve your problem, but are to create money and command it to work will do just the magic.

How? Called this the secrete of financial intelligence. You work more money you spend big and you earn nothing and the struggle continues, making your boss rich- many people work and they don’t know the reason while they are working, they keep focusing on the negative reasons, paying their bills, feeding their families, they keep working for money, they are trap, No- one can help out for these except reading these, change your mindset that is your thinking habit.

Working for others is very important, but you must know while you are working.

There are two options to work for others.

a) To meet up your daily needs of caring for your family and paying your landlord so that he will not throw you out of the house. These fears are what traps you to continue to work for others not thinking to set up your own business.

b)

The second option is your work for others to get the supportive capital to start up or support your investment.

Working for others is good if only you know how to let your income work for you.

In America Japanese Robert Kiyosaki is my Hero, he let me know the difference between liability and asset. Simply put it this way, any thing that increases your income, put money into your pocket while any thing that makes you spend money and earn nothing at the end is liability.

Most people depend on liabilities, simply because they have little or no financial intelligence, the science of counting number. Mathematics is a song because it let me know that numbers are dancing, in some cases you d not need an auxiliary calculation before implementing your goal, just change your mindset and expenses habit by using a scale of preference and opportunity cost by economic writer’s. List out your want if you must spend, then choose the important or necessary one. Learn to reduce your expenses and increase your sowing or earning or income column.

Pay yourself first, saving in bank is good but bank can not make you rich, because they use your money to carry out business and make more profit without paying you an interest. They use your money free of charge, but if you must borrow money from any organization they charge interest first, instead invest those money in business that add money to it, make it grow than keep in bank for safety—I suggest playing smart than safety. Just use your financial intelligence, your mind and your brain or so called your initiative to apply and get your financial freedom. Don’t remain job searcher, but job creation because Nigeria is looking for those that create job.

Where discus the Isaac Newton principles of motion (movement) which effect a positive charge, you will discover more secrete of of financial indigence and jump out of the rat race.