LET NEW THINGS FLOW IN YOUR LIFE

What in life do you worried so much? Is it money, marriage, relationship, happiness etc. your desire is your appetite for the success you want, never let the passion in you die-out for lack of focus. Relax and worry less for things are putting itself together for your good, get behind those things that cannot make you. Starts living a new life change every unwanted circumstance and let new things flow in the real life you desire, open that door wide for it. In life, what makes it more interesting, is keeping yourself open, letting new people in, using your mind, not being afraid of the unexpected.

Don’t allow your emotion to weigh you down. Emotion are human weakness, you need to focus, don’t leave the situation of things to fate because fate never wish you that; you deserve a better and happy life. Be patience, no matter what triggered your feeling to make you worried look for something you want and bring it to yourself. Isaac Newton stated in his law of motion; “A body or an object will continue to remain at a state of inertia if no external force applied to effect a change” You need an external force not an inertial to bring out the goodness, talent and success in you.

Be adaptive; when the going got tough always resort to a new system, then you will become unbeatable in your sale, business career, finance etc. Create love in yourself and pick your priority in life. Love brings happiness, it endures, and it persists longer than anger. Anger is a natural human emotion; impatience is such a pathetic human trait. But no matter what side of nature or nurture happens to be winning-out don’t give up always move up and put on a smile in every moments.

Learn to create what you want; give to people what you think you lack share their burden, help them get a job, put them first, in doing this you are preparing yourself to the top. Begins to activate yourself, and make yourself useful, you can do it don’t wait to learn it all. “It was said that, what you don’t know how can kill you, but the opposite is that it can make you too.” Take it from now you can’t wait any longer just start somewhere, because the future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. If you are curious to learn then you will be serious to win.

Begins your journey with what is available; don’t settle here, not yet! Keep moving until you get there!

TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOUR LOVED ONES

Always remember this; never forget to listen to your love one success. This is one thing that you should always do. Cultivate the attitude to take total care of your family, sibling and yourself. Take care of them while they leave and do not wait to weep when they die. Spent time with your love (family), make them happy and give them the best you can – if you are separated by distance, visit home regularly as much as possible, send them a letter and wishes, no matter how busy you are take some split of seconds to call them just to say hello.

Take care of your family with the little you have - a word of courage is enough to heal the heart and adapt one to face the challenge of life. Take time to communicate your feeling and worries with your family; don’t ignore them just because they were poor or unable to train you up to all academic level, they might render the best advise you want, share your problem with your family it worth the effort, keeping it for your self does no one any good.

Many people want to have all life can give them, before they could think of their family. Life is like a vapor of smoke that appears for a little while and then vanish, while still have the breath in you, now is the time to make them happy not later because that will only rub you the chance of family happiness. Procrastination of time to spend with your family will only create a debt for you, you weep heavily when they die leaving only a memory of things which you cannot change.

Don’t ever wait till you have all access to life function before thinking of your family, their blessing and happiness worth more than any other thing in the world. Many people don’t want to talk about theirs because of hard situation at home, they missed out and not knowing a change can come through them. As you may know; there’s no substitute for hard work and never expect anything to happen without you making a move first.

Newton will say reaction and action is equals and opposite, refuse your self of static and stand up for the total care of your family, go out there and do something, demand your success by force. There is no genetic code in you when you were born that you must not make it, refuse yourself of motionlessness. Think, plan, and act! Your action will be equals to your reaction and it produces result.

The Greatest Is Love – love your family; do well to everyone and reap the reward not the regret. Make them happy with what you have; you might not know what life will give tomorrow. Don’t wait to cry for nothing when you lost them, treat them now when they have you and experience the atmosphere of change in your home, business and organization.

Tips for Singles and Married

1. Always remember; never make yourself too available – people like mystery, puzzles and the thrill of the chase while dating.

2. Always remember this never forget to listen to your loved ones problems and success. This is the one thing that you should always do.

3. Always be considerate of your lover, when at a social or any other kind of event. Plan to spend some time together during the event.

4. All you married women – keep yourself looking good. When he sees other men looking at you he will be more intent on keeping you for himself.

5. All you daters remember this: Don’t be rude or get drunk on a date. Courtesy and manners will take you a long way.

6. A guy’s feelings may be buried in confusion what a man doesn’t realized is that this is what separate men’s intuition from that of women’s.

7. A relationship just doesn’t happen. Couples who are together for years aren’t just lucky; they actively care and work on the relationship.

8. Dater’s don’t talk about your ex. And if you do, don’t say anything disparaging. You are starting a new relationship so empty your luggage at the door.

9. Fill your sweetheart’s email box with e-postcards. Make a theme of the places you would like to go together, qualities about him or her you admire etc.

10. This is a tip mainly for men who are going for date: before going to meet your date check yourself first. Make sure your fingernails are clean.

11. A tip for the gals: let your man pay. If he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab.

12. Women pay attention: stay in shape and indulge in some fitness regime. However much you hate it, your Mr. Right loves your body as much as your mind.

13. Men don’t like weak women; they admire a strong woman but take care that you should not begin dominating. Maintain a relationship of equals.

14. If you find that your girl is rambling about various issues, don’t interrupt. It is her way of clarifying things in her own mind. Listen to her.

15. If you see a window of opportunity to come closer do not shut it. Any opportunity that helps you make a move should be acted upon immediately.

16. Communicate with your spouse. Let your spouse know what you are feeling and how you are feeling. Don’t be silent; it does no one any good.

17. Send her flowers, write her a love note, hug her unexpectedly or cook her favorite meal and eat by candle light. All of these say; I love you.

18. If you want to succeed in dating, go shopping, treat yourself to new clothes and even get a new look. Your image should be manageable and flattering.

19. When you go out to eat, order one serving first and don’t eat it fast, just take your time. The more time you have with your partner the better it is.

20. Appreciate your date: whether you have had lunch, taken a walk or spent an evening together, thank him for it and tell him how much you enjoyed.

21. Any good relationship requires effort to stay alive. Your unique way of being romantic is your personal anchor to securing the heart of another.

22. Ask your date questions and create conservation of mutual interests, even if you do not know much about the subject at hand.

23. Ask her about her school or career. School and work are always safe topics to discuss and can help you know what type of a person she is.

24. Boys if you make eye contact, do not be the one to look away, but do not stare for too long. Though be careful to not stare her down.

25. Befriending and understanding the girl you want to be with is very important. A lady needs to loved, adored and wants to feel needed.

26. Before going for a date, let someone else know where you are going and who you will be with. You might even consider arranging a time to call and check in.

27. Be sure to compliment your partner on something, anything. That quiet comment can be just the thing required, to lift up ones spirit.

28. Be polite! As they always say, politeness doesn’t cost anything. Every lover likes to be treated with respect and appreciation.

29. Be polite – please, thank you, you are welcome, these are not only meant for strangers; your own spouse and family should come first.

30. Be fair! Split the housework and spending money evenly. This way you are never resentful of your partner’s contributions (or lack of) or spending.

31. Be affectionate with your man. Give him a hug, hold hands and message his back. These nonverbal expressions of affection will mean a lot to your man.

32. Avoid letting your eyes wonder to other women when you are with her. Talking about other women or your ex are both no – no’s too.

33. Ask, don’t assume. If a man wants to know how you are feeling, he will usually ask. Females think they have a ‘6^th’ sense about guys. Just ask him.

34. Compliment him - whoever said that only women thrive on compliments had missed the mark by far. Men too draw nourishment from praise.

35. Communication is the key to keeping a healthy relationship going even something as simple as grocery shopping can be a chance to catch up.

36. Communication is the key ingredient in a relationship. It is important for couples to talk about both the big and small things in their lives.

37. Clutter around the house can create stress for both of you, so talk about how both of you can routinely keep the clutter to a minimum.

38. Choose a boyfriend carefully. You don’t want to look back and regret having started something that ended as a disaster.

39. Certain women like macho guys and disclosing too much of yourself early on in the date, can have negative effects. Speak less, hear more!

40. Call your partner to know if you can pick up anything on your way back home from work.

41. Buy super – long spaghetti noodles, set the table with red – checkered cloth and don’t forget the candle. Have a romantic video play while you eat.

42. Boys, you must stand up for your girlfriend no matter what. That means if you have to fight someone as long as it’s not a girl then do it.

43. Boys, you have to know about her most happiest or sad moments, close friends, family, co-workers, her favorite food and hobbies.

44. Boys try to match her energy level. Make sure your energy level is not too high or not too low relative to her.

45. Boys, the first step is to get noticed. If the girl you are after is truly as nice as you think, she’s probably being chased by several other guys.

46. Conversation is the key in this first date if you want to keep it comfortable and get another. So, be prepared with some interesting topics.

47. Confiding what is in your heart and in your mind can make a hug difference in promoting understanding closeness and intimacy in a relationship.

48. Boys, remember to look and feel positive energy draws people towards you. Project a positive attitude at all times.

49. Boys, if you can be honest, affectionate and respectful, just go ahead ask her out. You will stand out from the other boys if you can do that.

50. Boys, go out with your female friends. If a woman sees you hanging out with cool people, she will think you can’t be freaky.

51. Boys, be fun to hang around with, easy to laugh with and outgoing. Don’t be full of yourself or try to impress everyone, girl like humble guys.

52. Boys, like to have constant communication with the girl they like. So, calling him at his house will not look cheap, but is rather necessary.

53. A full moon is the perfect romantic thing to celebrate. Make a picnic for the two of you and camp out some where private to enjoy the ambiance.

54. A dating DON’T NEVER call someone more than once a day unless they reply. Desperation and instability are huge turn offs.

55. Guys, you might not like this, but bring cash on your first date. If the woman wants to go Dutch great but expect to pay at least the first time.

56. Girls, always remember: never come across as too available or too desperate, he will run a mile. He is the one doing the chasing remembers!

57. Deal sensibly: no matter how upset you are with your partner, take a leap of faith that the other person loves you and wants you to be happy.

58. Girls, the single most successful technique you can use to invites a man to approach you is, ask for his help with something.

59. Nurturing your relationship, enhancing it and keeping it flourishing takes time. There is no easy instant process!

60. Date safely rule – Go Dutch. By paying for your portion you won’t feel as if you are under any kind of obligation.

61. Create a small website or blog dedicated to your partner. Write a short love message each day for a month or forever.

62. Crack jokes (at your own risk please): Not only with this put your date at ease; it will show her that you have a sense of humor.

63. Couples turn off the TV, cell phone and sit together for a short time. Uninterrupted face – to – face, every day to share your thoughts and feelings.

64. Cooking a meal for your woman is one of the sweetest things a man can do. Pick a meal you know is simple for you to make and is pleasing to the eyes.

65. While dating, stay positive when your dates don’t end well. It is most certainly true that you will date a few frogs before you find your prince.

66. While complimenting a woman, don’t focus on her physical aspects. Admire some other qualities that make her an achiever in life.

67. When you agree to meet for a traditional or casual date, give a good impression. NEVER wear a sloppy out fit, let alone slippers to your date.

68. When you call your loved one on the phone, turn off all other distractions and focus on THAT PERSON. It really makes a huge difference.

69. Always be considerate of your lover, when at social or any other kind of event. Plan to spend some time together during the event.

70. When on a date always stand and sit up straight. It shows that you are strong, well trained and not ill. It makes you even look taller.

71. Never say anything out of anger. Relish your special moments, by letting your special someone know that he/she means everything to you.

72. When you sit down together in front of the TV, watch something romantic or pick up a romantic flick from your local video store.

73. Buy your loved ones favorites snacks and allow him/her to spend a whole evening in front of the TV – watching his/her favorite shows.

74. Call your special someone at random times, just to say how much they are loved and missed. Expressing love has no limitations.

75. Giving each others a little space is important. Space will definitely make the time you have together, so much more special.

76. It’s normal to feel hurt or angry sometimes, but in a healthy relationship, people don’t yell or call each other names. Talk things out.

77. When at a party, whisper something nice in your partner’s ear. Do this when she/he is in front of other people. Watch the reaction.

78. Have fun when dating, to create a happy atmosphere so your partner does not get bored. It is very important that she feels good.

79. Don’t expect your mate to be romantic towards you in return. Love is to give and receive.

80. Date the type of people you like and are attracted to, whatever your friends may say. Approval by your peers doesn’t prove a thing.

81. Girls like to be treated with respect. Ask for her opinion, listen to what she has to say and take her seriously. This will show her respect.

82. Before you go out, sit down, do relaxation exercise and visualize how you will like your date to go. Enjoy it. Doing so will prepare you for the date.

83. It may seem routine, but take your sweetie out for a walk together, hand in hand. Surely there are some scenic spots in your area to explore.

84. Don’t allow your love life to become a boring existence. Keep it alive by sending romantic love e-cards to your beloved every few days.

85. Don’t allow your date to get to know all about you the first time itself. Keeping secrets but give a hint. Create interest to get the attention.

86. Does she have an interest in sports? If so, maybe you have a sport in common and can have a date at a game or can play the sport you both like.

87. Do you vibe well? It is not necessary that both partners should have the same likes and dislikes, but they should be able to get along very well.

88. Do stay positive even when your dates don’t end well. It is most certainly true that you will date a few frogs before you find your prince.

89. Do not lie during a date. It creates problems. It’s always better to speak the truth and get the right partner who appreciates you for what you are.

90. Do not allow people to interfere with your relationship; don’t even let your family members get in the middle of fights or debates.

91. Do date only people you are attracted to, no matter what your friends say. Approval by your peers doesn’t prove a thing.

92. Desperation is the king of date killers. You need to keep the mindset that you are an important, busy person and that your date is lucky to know you.

93. Dating Tip – Never assume anything about your date until you choose to know him/her better. You cannot always tell by just looking.

94. Dating people don’t be obsessive. If the other person doesn’t call, they might have been busy. Leaving too many voice mails seems desperate.

95. Dating can be tiring, especially when managing multiple dates. If you feel like taking a night off, a weekend off, a week off go ahead and do it.

96. Dating at the workplace – keep all your disputes out the office. Whatever issue you are having, deal with it after work hours and outside the office.

97. Daters, what suits someone on screen may not suit you at at all. So don’t get into mindless copying but go for what flatters your body and personality.

98. Daters, keep away from negative friends who condone the dating scene or don’t understand it. They will lower your expectations and make you negative.

99. Daters, body language speaks volumes to the opposite gender, so don’t slouch, appear bored, fold your arms or engage in chewing nails or gum.

100. Girls like to be treated with respect. Ask for her opinion, listen to what she has to say and take her seriously. This will show her respect.

101. Before you go out, sit down, do a relaxation exercise and visualize how you will like your date to go. Enjoy it. Doing so will prepare you for the date.

102. It may seem routine, but take your sweetie out for a walk together, hand in hand. Surely there are scenic spots in your area to explore.

YOUR FINACIAL INTELLIGENCE

Learn how to make your money work for you, and don’t remain working for money, paying bills such as light bills, store rent, tax, house rent, and debts.

Each time you wake up in the money you must hurry up to work for the fear that your boss might fire you. You are making them rich while they are there smiling with their capital. This is what Robert called the rat race. More money to pay your expenses can not solve your problem, but are to create money and command it to work will do just the magic.

How? Called this the secrete of financial intelligence. You work more money you spend big and you earn nothing and the struggle continues, making your boss rich- many people work and they don’t know the reason while they are working, they keep focusing on the negative reasons, paying their bills, feeding their families, they keep working for money, they are trap, No- one can help out for these except reading these, change your mindset that is your thinking habit.

Working for others is very important, but you must know while you are working.

There are two options to work for others.

a) To meet up your daily needs of caring for your family and paying your landlord so that he will not throw you out of the house. These fears are what traps you to continue to work for others not thinking to set up your own business.

b)

The second option is your work for others to get the supportive capital to start up or support your investment.

Working for others is good if only you know how to let your income work for you.

In America Japanese Robert Kiyosaki is my Hero, he let me know the difference between liability and asset. Simply put it this way, any thing that increases your income, put money into your pocket while any thing that makes you spend money and earn nothing at the end is liability.

Most people depend on liabilities, simply because they have little or no financial intelligence, the science of counting number. Mathematics is a song because it let me know that numbers are dancing, in some cases you d not need an auxiliary calculation before implementing your goal, just change your mindset and expenses habit by using a scale of preference and opportunity cost by economic writer’s. List out your want if you must spend, then choose the important or necessary one. Learn to reduce your expenses and increase your sowing or earning or income column.

Pay yourself first, saving in bank is good but bank can not make you rich, because they use your money to carry out business and make more profit without paying you an interest. They use your money free of charge, but if you must borrow money from any organization they charge interest first, instead invest those money in business that add money to it, make it grow than keep in bank for safety—I suggest playing smart than safety. Just use your financial intelligence, your mind and your brain or so called your initiative to apply and get your financial freedom. Don’t remain job searcher, but job creation because Nigeria is looking for those that create job.

Where discus the Isaac Newton principles of motion (movement) which effect a positive charge, you will discover more secrete of of financial indigence and jump out of the rat race.

START WITH A LITTLE

START YOUR SUCCESS SOMEWHERE WITH A LITTLE

There is something many people need to known about the issue of success, they think is by depending on someone – If you are doing this you will never meet success. if you desire success in life then learn the success formula, you may say what formula.

Success start in you when you started earning weather little or big, it start when you begin to plan and move around, refused to be motionless, it start happening when you find out what is inside you. Rediscovered yourself, engage yourself a in peace of work that can earn you money with your ideal and put it into something, it produces result.

To learn the success formula is to start somewhere with what you enjoy doing best, put you into it with a little capital. You don’t need all the available resource before you start; just do it with a little and your initiative to forge ahead – No shortcut to life success, if you desire success in life then go for it.

As you already know there is no substitute for hard work, put your money into something to work for you and stop depending on your certificate as a graduate, go around and look for what people want give it to them, you will start making money without your field of study. Listen to me! Your academic qualification has nothing to do with the success in you.

No matter how a census is conducted in a country the mad ones is not counted while? This is because there are out of there minding. Now you know what I am talking about, why not use your intiative to apply. Education is not the only thing that gives success but it helps us with little support to move on. Does something first before you seek a support, if they fail to acknowledge your need then you don’t have to worry at all, as you have carefully plan your way.

When the going get tough with you keep going, be adaptive and you can beat your opponent anytime you will be unstoppable, they will wonder while you are still moving, its because you are tough and no one can stop you except yourself – Every weather is good for a champion, thus you are a champion in your world, weather raining or sunny you are there to perform your duty.

You have not succeeded now does not means you do not have a start in you, it means you have not accomplished yet, just keep moving later or sooner everything will find a suitable place to adjust themselves for your good and you shall smile at last. Your dream will create something you want from something you have inside you, therefore rediscovered yourself; find out what you can do to earn a living.

Mind your thinking; if you think you won’t make it, you won’t because what you think today is the product of what you become tomorrow. If you want to make change in life – seat yourself down for one day and think about your life, correct your mistake and start seeing yourself as a new object without any physical blemish.

Start linking yourself to success by gathering any useful information that create success, then put yourself at work, produce something out from what you get, it worth the effort.